Wanna know the secret to success? It's really not that hard. Are you ready? Here it is: STOP COMPARING! 3 ways to stop comparing: Define success for you - if you allow other people's definition of success into your awareness, then you're off on another rabbit trail. It's a path filled with discontent and …
Create a Stop Doing List
How many things are you doing because you "ought to"? I already know I have a couple. That was easy to figure out. As a matter of fact I've known for quite a while that I need to prune one or two activities. They are draining me to the point I dread them. The hardest …
Who Speaks Into Your Life?
Who do you allow to speak into your life? Being intentional about who we interact with is critical to the right kind of progress in the direction we want to go. We tend to move in the direction of what we spend time thinking about and acting on. Who you ‘do life’ with matters a …
Relational Junk Drawers
Can't everyone just get along?! Are you convinced that happiness awaits when you get all your relationships fixed? The reality is, there will always be someone mad at you or blaming you for ... {insert dramatic event or dysfunctional situation here}. If your goal is total harmony with the people in your life, you are on …
Bridges That Just Won’t Burn
What if you've already let go of the past, done the forgiveness thing and are happily going about living your life only to have one of the people you forgave punch you in the gut again with unkind words? Wouldn’t it be so much easier if they could just go back to not being a …